Wednesday, November 14, 2007

In politics, gender matters.

It's a year before the elections begin but we're certainly all aware that a woman is running for president. In a lot of ways, it's bigger news that the African-American or the Mormon candidates, although that varies by who you're polling. Does anyone know that Senator Hilary Clinton is not the first woman to run for that office? In fact, 26 women before her have run for president, beginning with the fiery Victoria Woodhull, a full 48 years before women ever even earned the right to vote. Although we'd like to think things have changed since then, and many people who either love or loathe Senator Clinton suggest that her gender is no longer an issue in our modern times, this is absolutely untrue.

Gender roles confine Senator Clinton. It seems like every other week, an article comes out dealing with the way she styled her hair, or a recent change to her outfit. Just this week, I read a blog hosted on the Washington post, no mere rag of a newspaper, talking about how she wore boots with her pantsuit at a recent rally (and that the pants were, gasp, a few inches too short). The blogger felt that the boots would help her—citing a previous candidate who wore combat boots, and citing Condeleeza Rice's position as “fashion icon” of the Bush administration.1 No surprise that Condeleeza is the fashion icon and the high profile woman of the group. When was the last time we saw critiqued Barrack Obama's choice of footwear? Also by that blogger, an assessment of Nancy Pelosi's scarves. Do we care what Fred Thompson wears around his neck? The double standards are ridiculous. Short of showing up in Bermuda shorts and a Hawaiian shirt, the male politicians are left to their own devices. It's only the females who are picked apart on their clothing.

Further in Senator Clinton's past, an artist known for his shocking and scandalizing sculptures made a hyper-sexualized sculpture of her breasts, inspired, he says, by a quote from Sharon Stone: “a woman should be past her sexuality when she runs. Hillary still has sexual power, and I don't think people will accept that. It's too threatening."2 Thank you, Sharon Stone, for once again reducing a woman to her sexuality. When Bill Clinton ran for office, he was considered very sexual. To this day, he's known for his charisma, charm, and sexual appeal. But for him, note, it was an asset. It was something to set him apart from the masses. Male sexuality=good, female sexuality=bad. Male sexuality is power and virility, masculinity at its finest. Female sexuality is seductive and mysterious, misleading and dangerous. Why do we even care? I mean, in both cases, why do we care? It's completely irrelevant to their potential leadership capabilities.

Most recently, actually earlier this week, John McCain and his supporters committed quite the snafu (to say the least) when an overeager crowd member asked McCain, “So, how do we beat the bitch?” McCain laughed uncomfortably, but in the end told the woman “That's an excellent question,” and without a beat, started talking about his competition with Senator Clinton. After all, who else could that particular vulgarity refer to? Yes, sometimes men are called bitches when they are to be made feminized or weak, but who in their right mind would refer to a male politician by an expletive? It's acceptable to call a woman names, it's not acceptable to call a man names. I think Ann Althouse says it best:

But I don't think "bitch" is a word that can be used in political discourse around a presidential candidate. Imagine if the questioner had asked — referring to Obama — "how do we beat the [n-word]?" He would have immediately voiced his rejection of that word. Laughing and pretending to wipe away sweat and so forth would never have been good enough and he would have known it.3

Just imagine how that would have gone over. Imagine the outrage. Imagine Sharpton and Jackson calling for their heads. But who comes to the aid of Senator Clinton? A few outraged feminist bloggers but where is our unified movement? Dead by backlash. But that's another story. In a less severe example, but one I think possibly even more relevant, what if someone had asked McCain “How do we beat the prick?” For one thing, he wouldn't have known who they were talking about without the gender specific slur. For another, the asker of the question would likely have been shunned for the use of such language. Doesn't it even seem harsher and more vulgar? And isn't that interesting?

The use of the word “bitch” is a powerful one. It's been used since its onset to keep women acting within the proper confines of their gender roles. As Joreen puts it in the famous second-wave feminist treatise “Bitch Manifesto”: “It is also generally agreed that a Bitch is aggressive, and therefore unfeminine ... But she is never a 'true woman.'”4 When a woman oversteps her role as a woman, she's a bitch. And in order to compete in the male world of politics, she has to do so. The following characteristics are cited by Joreen as being characteristics of bitches. Read them and consider how many are necessary for competition in politics. I will bold the ones I consider so (and this is the idealistic list, which is to say traits politicians should have, not including ones they often do that aren't so positive):

Bitches are aggressive, assertive, domineering, overbearing, strong-minded, spiteful, hostile, direct, blunt, candid, obnoxious, thick-skinned, hard-headed, vicious, dogmatic, competent, competitive, pushey, loud-mouthed, independent, stubborn, demanding, manipulative, egoistic, driven, achieving, overwhelming, threatning, scarey, ambitious, tough, brassy, masculine, boisterous, and turbulent.4

Senator Clinton has taken on many of these characteristics in order to compete in the world of politics where males set the rules and males have been the standard in this country since its founding. And, here's a thought, maybe she actually possesses some of them on her own, as “unfeminine” as that would be. But at the same time as these traits are helping her to gain favor, they're also causing a rift between the fact that she is female and how she behaves to gain political power.

Much could be said about her choice in words, pandering to the patriarchy by saying “I'm your girl” (emphasis mine), and various problems with her campaign. In short, this is not a show of endorsement. I would like to see more women in US politics as much as the next person, or maybe more, but I don't think Senator Clinton is the “girl” for the job. I write this simply to point out that sexism is alive and well in our most visible of arenas. The fact that many choose not to term it as such, thinking instead that their critiques are viable political assessments rather than baseless gendered attacks, is just another example of how in the US, we think we're past all our history of sexism, racism, classism, and other forms of prejudice but in reality it's all still here just in different forms. But in the case of “the bitch,” how different is it really?

1http://blog.washingtonpost.com/sleuth/2007/11/sen_clinton_these_boots_were_m.html

2http://www.motherjones.com/news/feature/2007/01/harpy_hero_heretic_hillary.html

3http://althouse.blogspot.com/2007/11/how-do-we-beat-bitch.html

4http://scriptorium.lib.duke.edu/wlm/bitch/

Monday, September 10, 2007

Rape is funny

Have you ever heard this, the worst advice in history: Live every day like it’s your last? Imagine that. I know that if I lived every day like it was my last, it wouldn’t last more than one day.

Here’s my itinerary for the last day of my life:

  • Wake up.
  • Quit my job.
  • Rape Jessica Alba.
  • Eat four dozen Boston creme donuts.
  • Vomit.
  • Eat another four dozen Boston creme donuts.
  • Empty out my bank account. Buy as much porn as I can afford. Watch all the porn.
  • Burn all my credit card bills.
  • Rape Jessica Alba again.
  • Head over to the White House. Urinate on President Bush.
  • Rape Scarlett Johansson.
  • Kill some people I don’t like.
  • Write my will. Nah, screw that. Rape Jessica Alba and Scarlett Johansson at the same time. Let relatives fight each other for my possessions.
  • Wait for the authorities to pick me up. Or wait to die. Whatever comes first.

The moral: If you have only one day left to live, take advantage of it.

This disgusting quote comes from this website: http://blogzarro.com/?p=349 and I encourage anyone coming across this post that finds it as disgusting as I do to voice your opinion on his comments.

We'll start with what's wrong with it: raping women is not ok. This should be obvious but apparently it's not. If this post is to be believed, the only thing that is keeping him from raping women in his day to day life is the fact that he could get caught and get in trouble, nothing to do with destroying a woman's life and taking away her free will. After all, this is his last day to live, may as well disrespect some women more overtly than his writing suggests he already does.

The worst part, as I see it are the comments which I encourage you to check out. Seven individual comments praise him on his rape plans (1 international visitor from Argentina, even!). Out of the rest of the comments, not a one says that anything is wrong with his idea, and one makes a reference to college girls being loose, including the quote "You can't rape the willing". This is disgusting. I'm hoping this is just the sociopathic dregs of our society in internet form but I'm not holding my breath.

By the way, I left my own comment. I thought maybe one voice should speak up about the wrongness of the thing. We'll see if it gets moderated out. Now taking bets.

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Feminism's new face

She does a great job with this. I've yet to read her book but I love how she talks. She's good.

http://www.crooksandliars.com/2007/06/06/feministings-jessica-valenti-talks-feminism-with-stephen-colbert/

Sunday, August 19, 2007

We should praise Christians for the Civil Rights Movement!

From this article: http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2007/08/16/sunday/main3174781.shtml

But Stephen Prothero, who chairs the religious studies department at Boston University, says that atheists miss the fact that religion, while being a source of some terrible evil, is also the greatest force for good.
"And so, if you're gonna criticize — you know, religious people for the Inquisition, then you need to praise them for the civil rights movement," he said. "You need to praise them for getting rid of slavery in the United States, which they did. You can't sort of have it both ways."

Excuse me? Civil rights and an end to slavery were brought about by religious people? Uh, I'm thinking no. The religious people were just as likely to bring the verses from the Bible about slavery to justify slavery as those who used the Golden Rule to justify ending it. A few choice examples:
However, you may purchase male or female slaves from among the foreigners who live among you. You may also purchase the children of such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your land. You may treat them as your property, passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance. You may treat your slaves like this, but the people of Israel, your relatives, must never be treated this way. (Leviticus 25:44-46 NLT)
Oh, look! It's Leviticus! That very same chapter which they use to enforce their homophobia. Can you really insist on the literal and still applicable truth of one verse while insisting that another is outdated?

When a man strikes his male or female slave with a rod so hard that the slave dies under his hand, he shall be punished. If, however, the slave survives for a day or two, he is not to be punished, since the slave is his own property. (Exodus 21:20-21 NAB)
Exodus. That's a credible book, for sure. No nonsense about the inferiority of gays there. Just good ol' slavery.

And here's a quote from a God-fearing gentleman of the time:
"[Slavery] was established by decree of Almighty God...it is sanctioned in the Bible, in both Testaments, from Genesis to Revelation...it has existed in all ages, has been found among the people of the highest civilization, and in nations of the highest proficiency in the arts." Jefferson Davis, President of the Confederate States of America.
Obviously he sees his own beliefs backed up by the highest form of religious law.

The same could be said about justifying the continuing racism of the US post-slavery using the Bible. Anyone familiar with the curse of Ham? It was incorrectly interpreted time and time again to justify the subjugation of dark skinned people, having been said to translate to "dark" or "black", rather than its currently accepted translation of "hot" or "multitude".
Here's an example:
"The doom of Ham has been branded on the form and features of his African descendants. The hand of fate has united his color and destiny. Man cannot separate what God hath joined." United States Senator James Henry Hammond.

Interpretation has always been the fault of any sort of literature or media. One can certainly take whatever one wants from a source to enforce a certain agenda. This being said, I think it's ludicrous to assume that it was Christians who ended slavery and began Civil Rights because it seems to me just as likely that their individual faiths would be interpreted to encourage these things.
I think it would be safer to say that these movements came around due to ethical, secular considerations of equality and human rights. Let's not give too much credit, here.


http://www.religioustolerance.org/sla_bibl.htm
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Curse_of_Ham

Saturday, August 18, 2007

Learn before you judge!!

I can deal with people educated and versed in my views telling me that they disagree. It's everyone's right to have an opinion. Sadly, this also extends to people who form these opinions without any basis in fact, or any attempt at understanding the opposing side.
This from my ex husband this morning via email: "As for the feminism, just remember. Penis-envy is worse than heroine addiction, at least with heroine you can get your fix and only hurt friends and family. Try that one on for size." Uh...huh. As if that even made sense. Also, this from the man who once screamed at me followed by a week long silent treatment because I didn't verify to his friends that he had a 9" dick. And somehow *I* am the one with a penis issue.
If he so much as ever listened to me about feminism, about my beliefs, about what I've learned in my women's studies classes, I KNOW that he wouldn't say ridiculous things like that but to ask uninformed people to shut up spewing their own beliefs and simply listen for a minute seems far too much to ask.
If you're a feminist reading this, how many of these presuppositions have been applied to you?
1. You hate men
2. You want better treatment than men/want to keep men down
3. You're a lesbian
4. You don't wear a bra/don't shave your armpits/etc
That list could continue but this is straight off the top of my head. People think things about feminists without even bothering to learn. If this wasn't the case, then why would the first exercise in countless women's studies 101 classes be to rattle off a list of things any rational person would think (people deserve equal pay for equal work, people should be treated the same for health care, etc) and then tell the students that if they believe it then, oh *GASP*, you're a feminist!
Why else would the word 'feminist' be so poison? Why is it that when you ask an average girl of teenage age range (usually most common in this group) if they are feminist, they'll deny it even holding the beliefs of feminism? Why else would we hear this phrase that makes feminists shudder to this day: "I'm not a feminist but..."?
Something needs to be done about the feminist reputation. Women (and MEN) should be proud to stand together and fix the inequities we fight against, and to unite under the label of feminist. The facts need to be straightened, the damage done by the patriarchy reversed, and the cause renewed.
I believe the only way to this goal is through education. I try to talk to people and straighten out their misconceptions about feminism. I may end up teaching women's studies one day (education and money willing) and I will make it a point to show people that it's not a compilation of all the bad stereotypes they've heard, but rather a legitimate cause focused on the simple idea that women are people too and deserve the same consideration.
This isn't much of a conclusion but again, I'm new at this serious type of blog so please forgive. Meanwhile, go out and spread the good word. Correct people who call you a "feminazi" (make sure to point out that it was coined by that drug addled hate mongerer Limbaugh). We can make small changes in our own social circles and backyards and the ripples will fan out eventually.

Friday, August 17, 2007

Welcome to Me

This is my serious blog. Well, mostly, hardly anything I do is completely serious.

I think it'll take me a while to get up to the caliber of posts I'm wanting to make. My willpower is notoriously bad.